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What are some alternative phrases for "focusing handle" that might resonate better with less kinesthetic people? I've so far thought of "focusing sketch" (the few lines you quickly draw on the paper as soon as you have the thing in focus) and "relative focusing pitch" (the single, accurate, in-tune pitch that helps the rest of your song be in tune as soon as you find it). ~~ Here are some terms I associate with it: non contingent pointer, non conventional pointer, true name, increase resolution, that’s-it handle, eureka, ahh term, cluster carver, boundary, encloser, hash, compression, program, the word for it in god’s language, the word for it before the tower fell, the instructions for construction, not merely a pointer. I really liked Gendlin's comment about how when you find the right word it feels like remembering something you'd forgotten and been trying to recall. Like the feeling of fit is in some sense the same as when you're like "anyway, I was telling someone about this other week, I forget who... Jim? No... anyway, the thing was that I think insecure attachment is actually the source of—Fred! It was Fred. I was telling Fred about attachment repair, and..."